Rituals in romance 💕
Rituals in Romance: The Significance of Something Borrowed, Something Blue
written by Mollie Fuller (contentncoffee)
“Something Olde,
Something New,
Something Borrowed,
Something Blue,
A Sixpence in her Shoe”
The wedding 'ritual' has been largely unchanged through the years. The familiarity of the centuries-old rhyme above shows that. It's known across the world in some form or another, but its origins can't be agreed upon.
In fact, its beginnings are subject to debate. From County Monaghan folklore to a Lancashire-based newspaper, there are theories. But sadly, the original has been lost to time. Although, it's said that the beginning lines first appeared in 1871 in a story in St James' Magazine.
Another consensus is that the last line of the rhyme is a later Victorian addition, believed to have first come about around 1900.
Something old & something blue
Both "something old" and "something blue" are thought to be protective against the Evil Eye.. This ancient Greek curse is said to be cast through an 'evil look' from someone jealous.
When cast upon the bride, it could cause infertility. Hence, "something old" and "something blue" was a safeguard for future children.
Something new
"Something new" is a tangible representation of the future. It's a new chapter in the couple's lives filled with happiness and hope.
Something borrowed
"Something borrowed" is traditionally something worn by another bride. In doing so, it's thought that similar joy and fortune will rub off.
A sixpence in her shoe
The saying "Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue" is widely recognised. But what's lesser known is the concluding line.
The sixpence was first minted in 1551 and circulated until 1967. It's unclear where the notion that it was lucky first came from, but the idea traces back to the pre-sixteenth-century.
Even today, this continues. Some still place a coin in Christmas pudding to bring good fortune to the one who finds it.
How can modern brides make the tradition part of their day?
Something old: engagement rings
Preloved engagement rings are often associated with bad luck, but that didn't deter me.
There's a certain uniqueness in knowing that my ring was crafted in the 80s in Birmingham. It's a history evident in its markings.
Antique and vintage jewellery is timeless. Opting for a second-hand ring opens up a world of options, you might find a style not common on the high-street. Mine is three of the deepest garnets set in filigree gold.
Something new: underwear
This one’s easy! There are so many ideas to choose from but I think indulging in well-fitted lingerie is the one. From delicate satin to lace, sets don’t have to be seductive when you feel as good as they make you look.
Something borrowed: the dress
In the 18th and 19th centuries, brides repurposed their wedding dress. It was common practice up until the 20th century. The price of wedding dresses can be extortionate. Besides the venue, one of the biggest costs alongside photography and entertainment. Opting to rent a dress instead is quite a financial saving compared to the RRP. This means that the designer dream is well within range for many.
Something blue: a charm
“Something blue” was traditionally a garter, but brides are getting creative with the colour. I’ve seen everything from blue sparkling wine to the smallest of charms pinned into hair.
A sixpence: a penny
In the absence of sixpence coins, brides sometimes replace it with a penny.
But for those set on a silver penny, repro sixpences are readily available online. (Wearing one as a necklace particularly appeals to me).
Enjoy elegance without the hefty price tag with Something Borrowed Bridal - the destination for designer wedding dress rentals.
Reach out to us for a seamless and stress-free experience..
